Reminders

Why are tears made out to be such a problem?

It is one of the biggest advantages we have. It is a boon. It physically re-sets the body. It is a physical release. 

Everyone sees the tears, but no one sees the power behind them. Let's just talk for myself... though I am sure a lot of women come in this very category. My brain is wired to feel more, sense more, understand more. There will be times I am sending more, but the understanding will come later... Because our brains take over. And that isn't always a good thing. Soft heart, unshakable mind. Logic and emotion is working simultaneously. Intelligence and intuition go hand in hand for me. 

When I cry, my body is forcing me to release stress. It clears mental fog, before it becomes chaos. Not to say sometimes chaos takes over first, and again, I attribute that to an overthinking brains. But crying for me is a system reboot. My nervous system needs this reset. It is NOT a weakness, its self regulation. 

I am emotionally transparent, not unstable. I love how transparency is mistaken for instability. My honesty can be felt. It doesn't need to be explained... yet I go out of my way to try my best to explain where needed. Post that, its up to the other person. 

I, we all wear multiple hats. Protector, peacemaker, the one who holds people and teams together, tho one who spots something off, even if I'm not fast to do something about it. 

My tears don't make me fragile, they make me human. We tend to forget that so easily, in a world that has forgotten to feel. 

I am not too emotional, I am just built different, and I'm kinda done explaining this.