Sunday, May 22, 2011

... missings...

What is it that you feel when you miss someone?

At different times, and for different people there are different emotions... :) Happy missings, with all happy thoughts bringing smiles to your face! Sad missings, thinking of the people you've lost in life... All sorts of missings with everyone and all the memories you've shared with them!

Memories... What a great thing, most of the time. :) The thought of an incident, an evening, a line said, a smell of a perfume, a song that was once danced to... can bring back so many emotions... can change so much of your current world! :)

Most of the times, I feel happy when I miss someone... I know they are important enough in my life to miss! :) And most of the people who I'm close to, will always have a few things if not more that will ALWAYS remind me of them. A song mutually liked, a number danced to, a place enjoyed at, food cravings that were shared, chats that made our worlds change or realise similarities and differences... SO SO MUCH and MORE!

Its a great feeling to be able to feel. You know someone is that important to you... and to hear it back is even better... To know that you're important to someone else too... It really can change your world around... A tiny example to share... something that makes me melt. I have my aunt's two kids who I am very close to and love very dearly. I see them often even though we don't live in the same city. But seeing them everytime, getting those real loving hugs and kisses and hearing how I was missed and making sure they know how much they were missed too... Changes our worlds for us. Everything else doesn't matter... It doesn't exist. A night over with a good night hug and kiss and an 'I love you' and a good morning wish very alike. With hugs and kisses and cuddles... What more does one want in life! :) These are the small things that make us who we are... are the important things in any relation! :) Makes you realise the other person's worth! :) And makes you realise how much you miss them when they are away! :)

Distance always helps puts things in perspective... one way, or another! :)

I miss you!

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