If we knew how our life was going to pan out, then there really would not be any point in living through right? Its the unexpected things that come our way that teach us so many things about how to live, react, behave etc etc.
We can wish for certain things, we want our lives to be a certain way, we are hopeful of our dreams and try to work towards what we want. But what happens when things don't go as planned? Do you freak out and run away or handle things in the most hap hazard manner ever, or calm yourself, think it through and try and find the best possible solution for the event/events? Try and see how you can make it a positive learning or event instead of a negative one. The choice is up to us. It truly is based on what we really want at some level in our hearts.
You know that quote, "life is what happens when we're busy planning it" or something to that extent. You know what, its true. We can plan all we want, but we have something written for us, and that will happen. We have to be gracious enough and open enough to accept everything that comes our way. Our paths in life are defined to a large extent, and even the people around us are there for many a reason. The people who do not question why, and go about doing and accepting things/life in a certain manner, are far ahead of those who question 'why'. That is an answer we never have.
Anyhow, the point being, one must be be open to what life has to offer. Good, bad or anything. Learn from everything and everyone around you. Take in people's good, leave out the bad. Try to be true to yourself and your feelings! :)
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