Life teaches you so many things... As we grow older, we interact with different people and have different experiences. Some good, some bad, some ugly, some Amazing and so on and so forth. But at the end of the day, we go through all of these things to learn. Constant learning is happening in our lives. The moment you think that you know it all, or 'at your age' you've seen it all and a lot, life will remind you of HOW wrong you are. Some people chose to notice those reminders and the others just ignore them. Its a personal journey we all have to make.
Life teaches you lessons that you don't really want to learn... But ever thought for a second that maybe you 'need' to learn these lessons. You have a path made out for you chose to walk on it wisely or not... Yes we have to make mistakes, this is how we learn. Yes life isn't a cake walk, who the hell led you to that misconception...??
But one has gotta live it...
People think they know you, and you know them, but really, no one knows yourself better than you. So you need to make your decisions and choices, whether those get changed at a later stage or not. You need to do what you think right at that moment. LIVE at your own risk. Do not care about what people say or think. I have in the past few years been thrown off my own path because 'people talk'! How ridiculous was it that I let it affect me! And I realised, that no matter what kind of person you truly are, people will paint their own picture of you. Even the people who 'supposedly' know you will paint their own picture the second they hear something that doesn't sound familiar to them.
Anyway, life is a learning, through and through. It teaches you many a things... and I for one have learnt so much in the recent past. The biggest learning I must say, is that we are probably better off alone... Coming from a person like me, this is really hard to believe... I'm not sure that I truly stand by this... Probably not... But I'm kind of feeling alone right now... Which is where this comes from.
To all my friends who have their bubbles... Keep em... Once they burst and life gets a jaded tint, its really hard to be strong. One has to be really strong to be positive through all the shit that might come your way. I feel like I'm one of the few who is fairly strong and will smile through the shit... Just sometimes when the lows are hard... I chose to disappear... Or be silent... I do believe that silence is the biggest cry for help from a woman... Just that people don't know this fact...
On that note... ... ... ... ... ...
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